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A lot of books on how to get your ex back basically say the same thing. Wait 30 days or more and have no contact. Then contact them again and see if they want to get together. The hope is that after 30 days they will have gotten over their upset and lost their anger towards you.
This advice is based on the idea that time heals all wounds. That after a month or so they won't be so mad and may even feel like forgiving you some.
This method of getting back with your ex has some value in some specific situations. But, for the most part, it can create a lot of problems. The anger your ex may feel can simmer and fester for all those weeks. Their heart can harden towards you in that time. Also, they may start dating someone else. When there is someone else in the picture, their heart strings start to attach to the new person, making it extremely difficult to get them back.
To try to avoid these issues, you will need an entirely different approach. Every break up is different and unique, but there are three main reasons that relationships end. You wronged them, they wronged you, or they're just not that into you anymore. While each of these reasons requires a different reconnect method, each one can often be repaired in a matter of hours or days, not weeks.
Let's say you cheated on your ex and they kicked you out last week. They feel betrayed and like they can never trust you again. This is completely understandable.
Well, to get them back, one of the first steps is to realize that feelings change. They are mad about a specific incident. They will get over it, maybe in a year or a month, they won't be that mad forever. But feelings change.
The next big thing to realize is that YOU can help their feelings to change quickly. This is the key to getting your ex back without waiting weeks. Two ways to help them do this is to help them vent their bad feelings by getting them off their chest, and to make a certain kind of apology.
Combine these two methods and you can often have a breakthrough in getting your ex back fast. They can release their bad feelings and start to move towards wanting you back. You can often get your ex back in hours or days if you apologize in a certain way and help them to vent their bad feelings. You don't need to wait months.
This advice is based on the idea that time heals all wounds. That after a month or so they won't be so mad and may even feel like forgiving you some.
This method of getting back with your ex has some value in some specific situations. But, for the most part, it can create a lot of problems. The anger your ex may feel can simmer and fester for all those weeks. Their heart can harden towards you in that time. Also, they may start dating someone else. When there is someone else in the picture, their heart strings start to attach to the new person, making it extremely difficult to get them back.
To try to avoid these issues, you will need an entirely different approach. Every break up is different and unique, but there are three main reasons that relationships end. You wronged them, they wronged you, or they're just not that into you anymore. While each of these reasons requires a different reconnect method, each one can often be repaired in a matter of hours or days, not weeks.
Let's say you cheated on your ex and they kicked you out last week. They feel betrayed and like they can never trust you again. This is completely understandable.
Well, to get them back, one of the first steps is to realize that feelings change. They are mad about a specific incident. They will get over it, maybe in a year or a month, they won't be that mad forever. But feelings change.
The next big thing to realize is that YOU can help their feelings to change quickly. This is the key to getting your ex back without waiting weeks. Two ways to help them do this is to help them vent their bad feelings by getting them off their chest, and to make a certain kind of apology.
Combine these two methods and you can often have a breakthrough in getting your ex back fast. They can release their bad feelings and start to move towards wanting you back. You can often get your ex back in hours or days if you apologize in a certain way and help them to vent their bad feelings. You don't need to wait months.
About the Author:
You can discovermore about the Immediate Reconnect Strategies to get your ex back in a book about Get Your Ex Back In Just Hours. Johnnie S Laney teaches relationship and emotional skills and you can get the free course 7 Vital Relationship Insights They Never Taught You In School here at Love Relationship Advice Help Secrets.
